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okay so let's get into it a lot of you
girls are making mistakes in your BIOS
and it shows it shows and the thing is
here's the thing you are probably two or
three words away from getting a sugar
daddy or someone who is potentially a
sugar I need to swipe on you you are one
you no joke away from getting some a guy
who likes to laugh spend money on you
and you're you know it's all they have
to do with your bio so get started I
want you guys to avoid these words
single mom full-time student or not
full-time so they're sorry college
student I'm tired of seeing that college
student in college like I'm just tired
of seeing that mix it up find a
different way to say that you are in
school like I would rather you just say
I'm currently in school then they say
because I'm tired of seeing a college
student and and I know they are - trust
me they are - um and it's not so very
much about what they're tired of it's
just like if they see the same stuff
it's what separates you from the other
girls what separates you from the rest
hopefully your pictures do but what's
gonna separate you from you know the
other girls so okay so another word that
I'm just sick of harnessing is fun and
sweet those are two words that I'm just
tired of um you aren't there's so many
other synonyms what
why can't you be easygoing why can't you
be high-spirited
why can't you be
adventurous why can't you be exciting
excited I don't know anything but fun
and sweet please anything buck on this
week just leave fun and sweet at the
door
also we're no longer using spoiled well
you can use foil but if you know how
using it for pictures I bomb but
generous um I love that word I didn't
create it we know that he's been around
for a long time but I swear as soon as I
put on my video everybody was using
generous when you look up sending them
up big big-hearted someone who's giving
someone who's basketball someone who's
unselfish look look what I just did I
did not use generous I was able to use
something else shocker I'm shocked I'm
shocked we're all shocked right here
because honestly if everyone sounds
robotic if your instagrams look the same
it it's it's not separating you from
anybody and I can't give you the exact
words that you should put in in your bio
while I do have a mint or tear if you
want to get in the mentor tier but
alright so with that being said
definitely the keywords that you are
using are important also telling a story
within the bio and I I say by saying
might tell a story oh my nose but by
saying my selling the story is something
short like my mom always said my dad
always said um and that lets them know
like okay well growing up her dad always
said this and it's not necessarily like
something oh they're checking off the
list oh she has parents know they're
really it's just kind of like a mental
note in someone's head like Oh her dad
isn't her like her mom is there like
family is important to her then they
kind of feel like they know you and
that's where the building of the
relationship comes because if your
borrow has no substance they don't know
anything about you you think I'm a sweet
fun college student looking for someone
to spoil me and they don't say if your
own secret arrangements like what do you
want for your match I want my match to
be generous kind and sweet
I went I created my like when I created
my black bubble or my hinge I always
made sure that it was something exciting
something that I knew people would be
attracted to I have a whole huge video
join me recreating my hinge of making a
finesse sugaring hinge right and Anna
one of the prompts
I put dating me as I hit in a lot of you
right
who wouldn't like come on out
who wouldn't like that as soon as I made
that I think and it was live when I had
made it so I made it I made the account
and right when I made it someone had
already liked the message oh I can't
wait to hit the lottery or something
like that so it's I'm not making this up
good files are gonna attract people and
you're gonna get and goodbye Liz what
substance will attract the right people
if you say more things about your family
your job and what you actually like to
do it's gonna attract the right guys
that actually care about those types of
things if you are just saying the bare
minimum you are gonna attract the guys
who want the bare minimum now I'm not
saying long BIOS because it's it's us
it's um quality over quantity so I'm not
saying have SuperDuper long BIOS but
what I'm saying is make sure that the
bio that you do have has something that
will be attractive and something that
will stand out um some things like BIOS
like I like watching movies going
swimming listening to music and reading
that's out like that's not going to
subtract anybody that sounds like
everybody who doesn't like to watch
movies who doesn't like to read if
you're going to put that if you want to
be a boring basic then why don't you put
I like to watch movies my favorite movie
is pretty woman I like to read my
favorite book is the color water okay I
don't I don't know um I don't know
whatever your favorite book is or
whatever but that is where the substance
come in little things like that can
change it up because you can say
something like oh I like movies my
favorite movie is um
Mission Impossible and the
your pot lights mentioned a partial and
he's like oh well there's a connection
there we both like to say movie you you
get you have a better chance of
attracting someone that way then just
not even saying anything about that and
just hoping that some guy reads between
the lines are hoping that your pictures
are good enough that a guy would be like
okay well she's not really saying much
but she's fine I'm gonna go ahead and
met her because that will that can't
happen but again what's happen are you
gonna try if it's just your pictures
just off of your looks
there's no look that is going to attract
again a lot of guys but it's gonna be
more weeding out if you say and and then
this is moving on to the next thing when
you're putting in like about your match
or if you're on bumble or hinge or body
any or OkCupid and you have to put stuff
in your props like anything that you put
in your proper whatever your props is
equal to seeking arrangement and
secretive benefits when they ask you
about trim match what you're looking for
right because they're prompts you can
put like three through great things that
make a relationship we can get along in
for this right those are the things that
are gonna eat are gonna equate that so
if you are on see um secret benefits and
you put like about my match I want a guy
who's understanding who won cigars way
to make me happy and treat me like the
queen that I am or treat me like the
princess that I am take his time out
really get to know me I want a guy who
likes to read I want a guy who doesn't
mind going on being spontaneous and
going on vacations I love a guy that's
created that it it it's not going to be
exactly like that but I'm just doing
something off my head you'll see I came
up with that now all your props on your
dating sites when it says three things
that make a good relationship will use
quality time I wouldn't I'm sorry I
wouldn't use physical touch but just
let's just say you use quality time
gift-giving and then physical touch use
those three so you're mixing it in okay
you want gifts but you have to make
substance in it and we
in the sugar room right or I don't want
like bumble our hands you look like
we'll get along if we'll get along if
you mean you have the same interests if
you like that if you like going on
vacations if you're a spontaneous person
those types of things are gonna separate
you then we'll get along if you buy me a
Gucci bag
like that's just not how it's gonna work
you have to kind of finesse it in there
and that's why Vanessa
when I say finessing I'm not saying like
scamming or nothing I'm saying for
finessing in a way of like persuading
someone and not just not not just
telling everything up front okay we
gotta have some type of finesse that's
only work pink okay you gotta have some
type of finesse with your bio um and
it's and don't forget I have a patron
and patron has a bunch of bio tips but I
want to show you guys a bio that I
created for somebody and I'm gonna start
with her bio and what she said and I'll
read that to you and then um I'll tell
you how I remembered in the new improve
ah so her old ayah was I'm a young
college student with dreams of traveling
I love to talk on the phone I'm the type
of girl who loves to shop and go dancing
I love festivals I'm hoping that I can
meet a guy who is sweet and doesn't mind
spoiling me not interested in anybody
who is looking for connections I'm
looking for an actual sugar daddy and I
don't want to deal with any of the BS
that comes with creepy guys on this site
that's her bio says come on out yo oh
yeah BIOS I know that you are running
into scammers I know that I'm running
into creepy guys but that is a no-no so
put that in your bio to put a beat
defensive like you're automatically
you're you're scared yeah you're gonna
scare off the scammers but you're also
gonna scare off the real potentials so
all that oh I don't want to get in
semantics
I'm not looking for to paint the pain to
play and all that
oh I don't not interested in scammers
like yeah we get it you're not
interested in scammers or whatever but
there's ways to finesse that into your
bio also the hopes of traveling and oh
all that sounds really poor and ghetto
um so I'm gonna read you guys the new
and improved by oh I'm a dancing young
woman who loves to travel and is a great
conversationalist I'm the type of woman
who enjoys light and I'm very optimistic
I'm hoping to match with a mature loving
dependable man who knows how to treat a
woman so me ethnic background ethnic
background or race does not matter as
long as you have a big heart and you're
willing to share it with me looking for
genuine connections not interested in
casual hookup boom there it is there it
is stop playing with me and stop playing
with the game okay
but honestly truly y'all can create BIOS
just like that all you have to do is
another thing is if you're not in let me
stop cutting myself all you have to do
is take your time
files do not take five minutes I think
the goodbye oh should take at least 30
minutes where you're grasping from
little parts of your life or your
finesse life and putting it in and
creating something something different
something unique so I don't want anyone
to just think like okay well if what if
I have a good bio and I'm not getting
good matches or whatever right the great
part about BIOS and sugar baby BIOS is
you could always switch it up and which
everything is which up you'll see you'll
see what type of guys do attract and
you'll see what what best works for you
don't keep the same file in the same
pictures y'all switch up your pictures
switch up your BIOS because that's the
luxury that we have we're online we can
switch it up we can become a better
version of ourselves there's some y'all
there's so many good examples of sugar
baby box I don't know how you're not
following it if I didn't know it's on
Pinterest another thing that I love that
girls one thing that I love that girls
put in their bio is when they
once you get to know me I'm distance
this I love that because it gives them
an opportunity or gives them kind of
imagination of like what type of person
that you are instead of just saying oh
I'm this person but I do like when girls
are like once you get to know me as this
that's a good thing to put in your bio
also a good thing to put in your bio is
your future plans as far as like you
know if you're starting a business or if
you're about to finish school
anything that can if you're starting a
business you want somebody to help you
with that right that's something that
you would help if you're graduating we
want a graduation gift you know
currently in the transition of moving
you want somebody to help you move it
dropping subtle hits in your hints in
your bio is very important and it's
vital because we want our bio to kind of
do the talking if our pictures can and
if our pictures are doing the talking
we want our bio to be the cherry on top
of everything okay one more thing and
this will be the end of the video I want
to say that if you are sugaring and
you're serious about being like a sugar
baby right and if you are finessing and
you're serious about finding someone who
will consistently spend money on you a
sponsor etc etcetera right I want you to
go on to a dating site right whatever
site you are choose to be a male and see
what the girls are putting in their BIOS
and you will see like either you'll see
some really good BIOS or some really bad
ones and you'll notice like you'll be
able to compare yours and see where
yours match up to these because some of
you are just feel like if y'all would
just take the time out to do a little
bit of the homework and that is part of
the homework you will see like hey wait
this girl by oh hold on a second even
come take two things for copying
okay let's plagiarism we talked about
plagiarism we talked about plagiarism
but no really at least get inspired by
those girls and but let me tell y'all
BOM BIOS are gonna get you like gonna
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