What to write to a girl you like
How to Text a Girl You Like -14 MUST KNOW Rules To Texting A Girl
Gentlemen, this is Mantelligence.
today weâre showing you 14 Expert Tips to Texting a Girl You Like.
It can be hard enough knowing what a woman wants when youâre with her,
much less with a few simple characters on your cellphoneâs screen.
And thatâs why itâs so helpful to have a list of tips, from a woman, telling you
exactly what to do.
So, hereâs how to text a girl you like:
Guys, the first texts that you send to a girl
are extremely important, because itâs these texts that help her determine
if she wants to be more than just friends with you.
So, be sure to follow each of these three powerful tips closely:
#1 â Text her within 24 hours of meeting her.
Youâve heard the old-school rule: guyâs should wait 2-3 days before contacting a woman
But times have changed, and today, that rule is absolutely ridiculous.
And thatâs mostly because it has become so much easier to get in contact with someone,
and since itâs so easy to pick up your phone and send her a few words, she thinks:
If heâs interested in me, why wouldnât he get in touch with me more quickly?
So, send a text within 24 hours, otherwise sheâll think youâre not interested.
#2 â Use her name.
Immediately jumping into calling a girl a nickname, can be off putting.
Instead, itâs better to start things off somewhere comfortably between formal and casual,
so in your first texts, simply calling her by her name is the safest way to go.
#3 â Remind her of something that happened when you met.
In your first few texts, you donât want to send her something boring, and unoriginal,
like: âHey itâs Ryanâ or âHey how are you?â
Instead, send her something interesting, by reminding her of the night that you met, like:
âLast night was so fun!
Youâre a maniac on the dance floor!â
#4 - Use proper grammar.
Do you still text like you used to back in high school?
You know what Iâm talking about: Using the number 2 instead of T-O, or using
the letter âYâ instead of âW-H-Yâ.
Texting with improper grammar is a big turn off to a girl because it shows youâre too
lazy to do even a simple task like writing out a full word.
It takes less than a second to spell out the word, but it makes all the difference.
Equally as important are those texts you send right before you ask her out,
because otherwise, sheâll get bored before you can even ask her out..
How do you do that?
Pay close attention to these must-know things:
#1 â Text her the same way she texts you.
For an easy way to figure out how to text this girl, look at how sheâs texting you:
How many emojiâs does she use?
How long are her texts?
How often is she texting you?
Mirroring how sheâs comfortable texting you, is a great, and safe, way to text her.
#2 â Text with a purpose.
Think about it: the whole purpose of texting a girl is to
eventually go on a date with her, right?
So, donât send random, pointless texts, because if the conversation isnât going
anywhere, either sheâll lose interest or sheâll
think youâve lost interest.
Instead, send texts that compliment her, entertain her, and keep the conversation going.
#3 â Make her wait to hear from you.
Because women want a man with better things to do than sit around waiting for her next
text, you shouldnât always immediately text her
back.
Now, this doesnât mean you should be rude, but give it some time before texting her back.
#4 â Send her exciting pictures of what youâre doing.
Alright guys listen up: A woman wants her man to have a life outside
of their relationship and the reason why is simple:
It shows that he is someone interesting to be around.
So show her your interest and send her pictures of you doing your manly hobbies.
#5 â Remember things she tells you about herself.
One of the most important things to a woman is to know that her man is listening to her.
Itâs a simple thing, but it makes her feel appreciated and loved.
Let her know that you hear her by either bringing up something sheâs mentioned in the past,
or by asking questions about something she has said, in order to have a deeper conversation.
So youâve asked her out, and she said yes?
Congratulations!
But guys, this is where most women get hugely turned off by a guyâs text.
Why?
Because this is where a lot of guys get careless in the texts that they send.
But itâs easy to avoid that by following these tips:
#1 - Donât rely only on teasing her to keep her attention.
Guys hereâs the thing...
Girls will eventually think men are cowards if they always hide their feelings behind
teasing.
And at some point she will want you to man up and tell her things like,
âYouâre prettyâ, âYouâre so smartâ, or âI like being around youâ.
#2 - Show her your good traits instead of telling her them
Do you like listening to people brag about themselves?
Of course you donât, and neither do women.
So instead of bragging and telling her these things, show her, by sending her texts like:
âI finished my book last week and canât find a new one, any suggestions?â
#3 - Joke with her, but not inappropriately.
While itâs important to show her you have a sense of humor,
telling inappropriate jokes will make you look like a immature, crude man.
What are inappropriate jokes?
Avoid anything thatâs racist, sexual, insulting, or overly mean.
#4 - Donât constantly text back and forth, when you can just call.
As you two get closer, youâll end up spending less time texting,
And more time talking on the phone or physically together in person.
And at a certain point, a girl will get confused why youâre constantly texting her instead
of just calling.
So when itâs time, instead of sending, âWhatâs up?
Iâm just chillin at home.â
Be a man, pick up the phone, and call her.
#5 - Donât suddenly stop texting her.
Weâve all done it before: youâre walking into the gym, a meeting, or a bar to meet
a buddy, and you suddenly stop sending text messages.
Normally, this is fine, but if youâve been quickly texting back and forth,
the sudden silence is confusing, especially in the beginning of a relationship.
So instead, be polite, and let her know whatâs going on, for example:
âJust got to the gym!
Iâll text you later.â
Thatâs exactly how to text a girl you like.
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