How To Start A Conversation On Tinder (With Text Examples)

Tripp here with TrippAdvice.com, teaching you the steps on how to get the girl while

still being your genuine self.

Today, we're talking about how to start a conversation on Tinder.

Today, I'm going to go over three techniques that will guarantee to get a response on Tinder

the next time that you talk to a girl.

Let me ask you a question, is it hard for you to get a girl to respond to you on Tinder?

Or you're not sure exactly how to do it?

Do you get zero responses when you send a text through the app?

Tinder is a fickle beast.

While it's super easy to get a match, it's not easy to get a girl to respond to you.

After doing quite a bit of research, I came up with three different techniques that will

give you a higher percentage chance of getting the girl to start talking back to you, then

getting her to meet up.

The big idea is that you have to stand out.

Tinder has a lot of users and girls are matching multiple times every single day.

You have to be the one that she wants to respond to.

How are you going to do that?


I have three techniques with examples that I want to show you.

I got these techniques from surveying some guys who are getting a lot of dates off of


Let's get into it.

Number one, create a story based around one of their pictures.

Look at one of the girls Tinder pictures and write out a little story of what you think

is happening in the picture.

The key to this technique is to be humorous.

Don't take it too seriously and write an exact caption.

Use your creativity to almost guess what she's doing.

If there's a picture of her looking out at the ocean, you might want to write, photo

three, Stephanie look longingly at the ocean wondering how much wood could a wood chuck

chuck if a wood chuck could chuck wood?

Have fun with it.

Don't steal that line because then 100 other guys will use the same line and you want to

be original.

Take this simple concept and make it your own.

If you do this right, she will find it creative which will bring her to want to respond.

Number two, comment on something regarding their profile.

What makes this one different than the last one is you're going to take a less humorous


Comment on something that she talks about on her profile, or something she's actually

doing in one of her pictures.

Why this works so well is because you're going to stand out from all the other guys who don't

take the time to actually have a conversation with her.

You can comment on the fact that she likes a certain type of music, or maybe what she

does for a living.

The trick here isn't to be playing and say, oh, cool, you like Coldplay.

So do I.

Instead, you might want to say something, assuming it's true like, I went to see Coldplay

last fall at the Staples Center and they played an incredible show with 4 encores.

The trick for this is to say something more interesting and specific regarding the actual

thing that you're commenting on with her profile.

If you do this, she will see that you're actually interested in getting to know her and also

see that you two have something in common.

This make her want to respond.

Number three, cold reading.

Sometimes you might not get much from her pictures or profile to comment on, don't worry,

I have a simple solution for you.

What you want to try is a technique called cold reading.

It's something I teach guys when they're talking to women in person.

You can also do that on a conversation on Tinder.

An example of cold reading in terms of meeting girls is taking a guess on what a person is


Research has shown that people like talking about themselves because it makes them feel


When you're talking to a girl about her, she'll enjoy responding to that.

The best way to do this is to add a dash of humor into it.

You can say something like, let me guess you're a veterinarian with a love of 1800’s French

poetry and a sucker for mint chocolate chip ice cream.

Am I close?

This is a unique way of starting a conversation which will keep her intrigued and gets her

to respond to you to comment on your guesses.

What are some ways that you'd like to start a conversation on Tinder?

What's worked for you or what hasn't worked for you?

Write down in the comments below.

I'll be in there checking them all out.

When these Tinder conversations get started and you use one of these techniques, you're

going to start to set up more dates.

If you want to know how to have a killer first date that gets you a second date, then watch

this video right here.

Thanks so much for watching.

I'll see you on the next video.

The second date is the key to getting closer to a girl but before you can go for a second

date, you have to make sure that the first date went smoothly.

Let me give you a few tips.